(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ Loser ♥

Let me tell u

A little girl went to her mother and asked what the failure means? She just gave a smile at her and replied”dear,the failure is something which we doesn’t learnt about and something we have to learn about.

The failure makes us know about what we are and what we are capable of. sometimes it makes us feel low and depressed .But the way we understand and define ourselves a failure is the thing we destined.

The problem lies in the fact that when we begin something new, there is no way for us to really know what is to come. We see and judge it from the perspective of a rookie, and because we have not yet put a lot of work, time and money into it, it just doesn’t seem like it would be that much of an issue. However, when we have already spent much resources on it, put our heart and soul into it, failure and adversity gain a whole new meaning. They become deadly. The question is then, will you be able to overcome them or not? In fact, that’s what separates successful people from the rest of the crowd. Not because they know something that no one else does, but because they are able to push through no matter what.

There are thousands, even tens of thousands of failures for every big success in the world. But stories of failure are not as sexy as stories of triumph, so they rarely get covered and shared. As we consume one story of success after another, we forget the base rates and overestimate the odds of real success.

It’s said that real success comes after a string of failures. That’s exactly what happened with Rowling. Her personal life was in upheaval making every day troublesome for her.

She was depressed, having come from a relationship of abuse and now raising a little girl on her own with only welfare money in her pocket. She contemplated suicide more than once during this time, but she overcame it.

Through the years, only one thing was constant in J. K. Rowling’s life—her love for English and literature. She began writing as early as age 6 and has never stopped.  She particularly enjoyed writing children’s fantasy stories and most of her works are of this nature.

The idea of Harry Potter came to her while she was on a train from Manchester to London.  She was consumed with the idea of a train taking a little boy to a land of fantasy where he had powers and where adventure awaited him. This is how Harry Potter was born, as were the multitude of characters, events and places in the famous books.

life is a testament to how tolerance works wonders. At times, life will give you one failure after another, one disappointment more than you can take, or a challenge that is too much to bear. When you are feeling the pressure of such failure, remember the penniless lady and her daughter who lived on government assistance alone. Remember that all she did was to do what she does best and believe that one day the odds would turn in her favor. Be it by divine intervention or a twist of fate, patience has rewarded her with much more than she could have asked for.

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